Fire thought she'd really rather be Water instead ([info]sugarpuss) wrote,
@ 2005-11-04 04:16:00
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PUBLIC POST, let's try this one more time.
I've made a post just like this one at least half a dozen times.

If you come to my journal and can only see this post and my friends-only banner post, that means you are not on my friends list and cannot see my entries.

If you friend me and don't tell me by commenting on the friends-only banner post, I may never find out, and I do not friend anyone back automatically. In other words, if you friend me, tell me who you are and how you found me, or you have no shot at being friended back.

This is very simple to grasp. It is in my userinfo and I'm saying it here again. I just posted this same kind of post a few days ago and already someone friended me without telling me.

This post will disappear within two days.

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[info]valkin
2005-11-04 03:35 pm UTC (link)
wow, so this happens to you a lot?

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[info]sugarpuss
2005-11-07 07:14 pm UTC (link)
Yeah. People will add me and I sit there thinking, do you not notice that you see nothing in my journal by adding me? All you get is a name on your friends list.

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[info]dementiabones
2005-11-04 06:47 pm UTC (link)
Yeah like I told you I friended you because you seemed interesting for the most part. I was just randomly searching for people that I thought had some simaliar interests.

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[info]melissa_leah
2005-11-05 12:22 am UTC (link)
yay! i'm still here this time :]

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double-post from Dave's lj
[info]zer0sleep
2006-10-23 09:33 am UTC (link)
Ooh wait, since I never read anything Kat says, I just now caught this:

>>Dave was fine until you took him out of here and nearly killed him, and these are his words. There seems to be a discrepancy between how he feels about you/the situation when he's not actually in it versus when he is.<<

Say what? Why do you keep calling me if I "nearly killed" you; YOU being a grown man who is responsible for himself? What fresh shit is this? Every time I think you people are cool you spout crazy shit at/about me. Conveniently, I'm never there to hear it. Dave, you fuckass, get your head together before you call yet again.

And as for you, Drama Queen,
>>Tell me, why does, say, Jena, deserve to lose a friend?<<

That's not at all how it went down. If Jim wants to use me as his excuse for blowing off ANYONE besides you, that's a flat-out lie. I tried to be friends wth Jena et al but something weird occurred between Jim and Lyss, and after they argued WE weren't invited out again. I assume they fought about her and I not getting along *despite* my overall okayness toward her, but I'm not even sure. Point is WTF is with blaming me for what he chose? I didn't fucking voodoo him into it.

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Re: double-post from Dave's lj
[info]sugarpuss
2006-10-24 12:00 am UTC (link)
Wow. I don't even remember when the above quotes were said (I'd go check Dave's journal but I so rarely use LJ that I don't even feel like exerting that much effort on the site... I haven't read/updated anything in months). You never read anything I say? Well, it's not as though I expect you to or anything, but I have NO IDEA where I stand with you, which is pretty much how it's been since I've known you (which is what, 11 or 12 years now??). Last time I spoke with you (which, IIRC, was maybe a few months ago or less? perhaps you remember), you were acting like my best friend in the world, telling me about your life, and saying a lot of other things that, since they were said in a private conversation, I won't repeat here out of respect for the fact that I don't know that you'd want *anything* you've said repeated in this public forum. However I'm sure you know the conversation I am referring to.

Anyway, I have no true idea what exactly went down because it was not only at this point quite some time ago, but it also didn't directly involve me in the sense that it all went down in Philly while I was at home in Allentown. I can only go on what I'm told and in any situation where there are two sides involved, you're bound to hear two completely different stories. I do vaguely remember Lyss mentioning something about a fight with Jimi, but, sort of ironically, I've just gotten back in touch with him and he seems to be cool with me; he just doesn't want to be in the presence of any sort of drug use. I don't really know at this point who is talking to whom or what. The last I heard, Jimi is "back", which I assume means he's talking to people again, and that you've been calling both him and Dave recently (the latter I found out when I was at Krista's apartment & Dave was talking to his dad on the phone). Beyond that, all I know is that the last time we talked you acted as though we were beyond okay with one another and even more than that, you acted like there was never a time when we *weren't* fine, even though in reality after you left my party you spoke to me a handful of times and then -- again, this is from what I was told; I wasn't there -- you badmouthed me to my friends and their friends and eventually, for whatever reason, you separated yourself from that group of people and I just didn't hear from you or about you for a while, until the conversation we last had.

And trust me, I do blame Jimi for what he did. He made bad choices all by himself and he punished a lot of people who never wronged him because of it. I have made that very clear to him just in the last few days. I hope you understand there's a huge difference between how I viewed what went down in the period of time directly following my party in February and how I perceive things now, eight months later. As for his "excuse", it was that he went through a really bad time drug-wise with you and following that he stopped speaking to EVERYONE because of drug-related issues.

How you choose to feel about me is obviously your decision, and you have to do what you have to do. But none of the above is "fresh shit" (re: the comments you're replying to) and in fact I would never have remembered even saying those things if you hadn't reminded me.

I guess all I can say is, I'm dealing with my life right now. I went through a phase I never meant to go through and managed to come out of it before it completely took me over. I was recently diagnosed diabetic, with subsequent neuropathy in my legs/feet/hands/arms so I'm adjusting to an entirely new lifestyle & drug regimen (the stuff I'm on as we speak has me more spaced than most street drugs -- that's for the neuropathy). I'm trying to make my life with Todd and get the fuck out of his parents' house. I hope you and I are cool, and Todd says he, too, hopes that you and he are cool, but of course you'll have to tell me where we stand.

It would be a LOT easier for you to reach me via email (xxbringmesugarxx@aol.com), should you chooe to contact me.

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